However, they’ll occur dispite everyone’s efforts to prevent them because many of beach handjob are still making the transition from the cloth lifestyle. Male physiology makes it impossible for a man to remain totally flaccid during the day.
Most considerate guests at a beach or resort are really embarrased by erections and are asking for ideas on this newsgroup about how to prevent them and how to gracefully make your exit when they do happen. Many of us who are a newcomer to this life would also like some assurance that the problem will decrease with time and better comprehension.
A G string is not an acceptable option. Entire nudity is the standard state for guys together with women. We have to learn new thinking and conduct, not return to the fabric world’s way of seeing things. I’ve never seen male G strings for sale anywhere. Even if I could locate one, I wouldn’t wear http://modestperson.com . Many naturists and fair-minded cloth folks would consider it more sexually provocative than just innocent nudity.
A libertine or an exhibitionist may occasionally drift into a nudist crowd, but I am not talking about them. Most naturists want such people evicted from polite society.
I do consider that it is helpful to discuss etiquette and basic biology. I wish I’d learned some of these lessons when I was a boy, maybe of middle school age. It is not fair for children to suffer in ignorance and silence because grownups are too embarassed to talk about the facts of life and about basic nudist etiquette, even the less sensitive subjects.
It’s been suggested that a public forum is unsuitable for such candid conversations, because kids may stumble upon it. I am hoping that parents and teachers are closely monitoring the Internet usage of children and providing some guidance to teens. I steadfastly believe that at some age, perhaps middle school, boys and girls need to be reading the sort of information in this newsgroup and have their parents there to lead them through these topics that they’ll soon be faced with at the cusp of adolescence. To support my contention, I have to call attention to http://nudenudist.com that INA has created a thread specifically to discuss issues such as this.
To GalSurfer: I am particularly worried about the sensibilities of the female subscribers to this newsgroup. I would like to assure you that I ‘m opposed to sexual “flaunting” as you put it, since it’s demeaning and intimidating to those people who are forced to put up with it. I think some of us made a poor choice of words by saying “arousal” without immediately explaining that in its mildest form, it might not be perceptible to the casual onlooker. I do not understand any men of good will who’d not quickly pull away from public view if issues took a turn for the worse. If any read ers don’t understand how to act, this newsgroup can help immediately bring “newbie” behaviour in line with our community’s standards.
Better to learn it here than on the beach!